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School Is Never Out For The Pro by Bob Bly

Posted December 31st, 2011. Filed under Self Development

Some time ago, I casually mentioned in my e-newsletter that I was taking a writing course.

One of my readers, JN, was absolutely shocked.

“YOU are taking a WRITING course?” she asked incredulously.

The implication was given that I have been a writer for over 3 decades, my taking a writing course is either frivolous or silly—a waste of time and money.

JN could not be more wrong.

“School is never out for the professional,” I answered concisely.

It’s my observation that folks who are really at the top of their field are constantly reading, studying, learning, and attending lectures in their specialty.

Why? To raise their mastery and skill to an even higher level.

On the other hand, those who are at the bottom seem to feel they learned everything they need to know at college, trade school, or on the job.

And they exhibit little or no desire to spend more time learning it better.

To me, this attitude seems lazy and counter-productive at best and dangerous at worst.

Can you imagine going to a doctor who didn’t keep up with the latest medical research?

Of course not.

So why is the idea of a writer taking a writing class so surprising?

JN’s reaction reminds me of an American Society of Journalists and Authors (ASJA) weekend writing conference I attended many years ago.

The person sitting next to me and I were both studying the curriculum in our conference brochures.

“This looks good,” I said, pointing to a page, “a session on how to write book proposals.”

She sniffed haughtily.

“I wouldn’t need to go to THAT,” she said in a snobby, superior tone. “I am ALREADY an author and I have written a published book.”

At the time, I had written 30 published books. But I didn’t tell her that.

Instead, I just went to the session. And I learned a lot—enough to sell 50 more books since then (and counting).

Maybe JN thought that, seeing as I presumably know how to write, I would be better off taking a course in flower arranging or bookkeeping or PowerPoint.

But as busy adults, you and I have extremely limited time. We can take only so many courses.

And you will get a far better return on your investment in education by taking courses in things you are already good at—your strengths—rather than areas in which you are weak.

Why?

Your strengths are what make you successful.

The other stuff doesn’t much matter.

In his book “Strength Finders” (Gallup Press), Tim Rath writes: “People have several times more potential for growth when they invest energy in developing their strengths instead of correcting their deficiencies.”

Yet, notes Rath, 77% of parents think that a student’s lowest grades deserve more time and attention than the subjects the student is best at.

Think about it this way; in a horse race, the winning horse can earn tens of thousands of dollars more than the horse that “places” or “shows” (comes in #2 or #3).

Yet often, especially in major races, the first-place horse beats the second-place horse by only a fraction of a second.

Therefore, if the horse and jockey make a massive effort to improve in speed, and beat their previous time by only a second or two, they can win instead of place or show—and make the owner and jockey a lot richer.

On the other hand, a racing horse is a lot less powerful, and can pull a lot less weight, than a Clydesdale—those humongous horses that pull the Budweiser beerwagon.

If you strength-trained the racehorse for years, it could probably get stronger.

But it would never get even close to the Clydesdale in strength…and it wouldn’t earn a dime more on the track.

Many things about success are counter-intuitive, and the notion of training is one of the most counter-intuitive of all.

Most people, when they see classes being offered, gravitate toward classes on subjects they are weak in, hoping to improve their skill level from minimal to acceptable, or learning something new.

For instance, I am not an expert in search engine marketing, which is a hot topic in Internet marketing.

So to correct the defect, I signed up for the Direct Marketing Association’s Certificate Program in Search Engine Marketing (SEM).

I took the class and learned a lot about search engine marketing—useful for me as a copywriter.

But I have also learned something else…

Namely, that no matter how much I study search engine marketing, I will never know more than a small fraction of what the top gurus—like the ones who wrote the DMA program—know about search engines.

So does that mean I gave up learning SEM…and did not optimize my website?

No. I am still learning SEM. And my website was optimized. But not by me.

Instead, I did something a lot smarter than trying to do it myself.

I went out and found a top SEO consultant, who (with my assistant’s help) optimized the site for me (although I DID write the copy).

As you can tell, I am a big believer in specialization and the hiring of specialists.

There is so much to know, no one can know it all. And trying to do so is futile.

As Thomas Edison once said, we don’t know one-millionth of 1% about anything.

Given the overwhelming amount of information in the world today, and our increasingly limited time to master it, I am convinced that we get the best ROI on learning and training by focusing on our strengths and learning to do what we do well even better.

I have found that, with rare exception, most people are only really good at one thing.

In particular, I am wary of professionals with hyphenated expertise (e.g., writer-designer, illustrator-photographer); I find that these folks are usually good at only one of the two designations—and usually mediocre at the other.

I also agree with the late direct mail consultant Dick Benson, who said: “Do what you do best in-house; buy everything else outside.”

Bob Bly is the author of “World’s Best Copywriting Secrets” and has written copy for more than 100 companies including IBM, Boardroom, Medical Economics and AT&T. He is the author of more than 75 books and a columnist for Target Marketing, Early To Rise and The Writer. McGraw-Hill calls him “America’s top copywriter”.

How quickly COULD you make your first million?

Posted December 30th, 2011. Filed under Self Development

Making A Million Look Small

The fastest path to YOUR first million dollars (or your next)…

…is making it look like “no big deal”, instead of the massive obstacle MOST people view it as.

Anyone can create tremendous wealth in the shortest time possible if they know how to apply the “universal laws” that govern the way the world works.

And there’s simply nobody who can help you better than these 4 Master Manifestors of personal change, wealth, and all the good things in life: Bob Proctor, Peggy McColl, Mary Morrissey, and Gay Hendricks!

This is your exclusive invitation to join these 4 “heavy hitters” as they reveal the very same strategies they’ve used—and continue using every day—to create the amazing life of abundance each enjoys.

In the spirit of “giving back”, they’re conducting a FREE webinar (an online web-based presentation), titled “Making A Million Look Small“.

And they’re presenting it on several different days, at different times, to fit your busy holiday season schedule.

No matter what you may want to manifest or attract into your life, you can do it more quickly, simply, and easily after you’ve adjusted your perspective, made a million look small…

…and then begun implementing the strategies this “Fantastic Four” has to share with you.

Anyhow, I want to keep this short. So here’s the link to get more info and register for the seminar.

Double Your Business by Bob Proctor

Posted December 27th, 2011. Filed under Self Development

Have you ever heard that once your mind has been expanded by a big idea it will never go back to its original state? I like that thought, and truly believe it.

For some strange reason, most individuals mentally fool around with a small idea when they begin to think of increasing their business. It is 5 to 10 or 15% if they even give consideration to an increase. I want to suggest that you begin to think of doubling your business. That’s right. Doubling it.

If you are the chairman of Exxon or some other multi-national corporation the idea is probably ridiculous. However, odds are, you are not in that position. Even if you are, you can double your effectiveness.

Think with me for a moment. We both know that it takes no more energy to work on a big idea than it does to work on a small one, so you can proceed assured that this type of mental activity will not give you a brain hernia. I want you to take a sheet of paper and put a figure at the top that will represent twice the business you are presently doing. If you are in a position where your effectiveness is not measured in dollars, write down what you would be doing when you are twice as effective.

Then write the words “How can I?”

When you begin to think about this, ideas will probably begin flying into your mind explaining why you can’t and why it isn’t possible. They will, in all probability, be valid, but counter-productive. Forget them. Tell yourself you have nowhere to write them.

Keep thinking.

After a while positive ideas will begin to flow. Write all of them on your paper, even the ridiculous ones.

These positive ideas will prime your pump for better ideas. Al Spizzirri, a friend of mine in Toronto took his income from $18,000 a year to $500,000 in two short years with this very concept, and I have NO doubt that you can do even better than that—if you choose to.

My company expanded across Canada into all of the U.S.A., Australia, New Zealand and around the world with this simple exercise.

Double your business—it’s an exciting idea.

Move In The Other Direction by Bob Proctor

Posted December 23rd, 2011. Filed under Self Development

30 years ago I had the good fortune of listening to a recorded message by the late Earl Nightingale. He taught me many valuable lessons. Earl’s philosophy changed the course of my life.

I recall one in particular which stands out in my mind: “If you travel in the opposite direction to the masses, you will probably never make another mistake.”

That was good advice. It seems incredible that people in such large numbers can be wrong, but they are. Historically, they always have been.

Here is an excellent example. Generally speaking, first-time home buyers are young. Young people are frequently influenced by older relatives, friends and neighbours.

In Toronto real estate sales are down—way down. There are not many people purchasing real estate. If a young person or couple is thinking of buying their first home, the odds are pretty good the advice they would get from their seniors would be, “Don’t buy now—this is not a good market, not many people are buying.”

That is precisely why you should buy. Sales are down, that’s correct…but, so are prices. If you’re listening to advice from the masses you will always be in the same financial shape they are in.

Don’t wait for another boom in the market when everyone is buying…that is when the prices are up. Now is an excellent time to buy a home, the market is low. Then, sell when it’s high.

The masses have that equation reversed. That’s why they are not winning. This applies to almost everything people do. Try going to lunch at an off hour, the restaurant will be empty and the service great.

Kenneth Lord, creator of the “Monetizing Your Passion” training program, wants me to pass you this message:

Do you feel stuck? Are you frustrated because you know that you have the passion and energy to finally put your business plan in action but can’t seem to get things off the ground?

I see the same scenario daily as I work with my new clients—talented and creative entrepreneurs who are ready to turn their dreams of running a profitable business in reality. But, somewhere along the pipeline of great ideas things get stalled. There are many stalling points: waiting to build your list before launching, putting off monetizing ideas for fear of not being qualified enough, and more.

But they all come down to the same struggle—making the leap from passion and ideas into product and profits.

The good news is that you can get things moving quickly and I can help you. Over the past two decades, I have guided my clients to get clear on their passion, identify their biggest value, and make the shift into bringing in regular profits from doing what they love best.

This is why I’ve created my new “Monetizing Your Passion: 6 Steps to Achieving Anything You’ve Always Wanted!” program, which combines all my past experience and expertise into one instant access program, and I am excited to be sharing it with you during this initial launch.

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• Wake up excited EVERY day?

If you answered “Yes!”, don’t put off your progress for another day.

During this “Monetizing Your Passion” series I will take you through the lessons that are designed to help YOU reach YOUR full potential and enjoy the kind of wealth you have always dreamed of.

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To living your passion successfully,

Kenneth Lord

P.S. Order today during the launch, and find out how to get a personal one-on-one session with me to boost your progress even faster!

Attitude Is The Key To Life by Bob Proctor

Posted December 13th, 2011. Filed under Self Development

Victor Frankl once wrote, “Everything can be taken from a person but one thing: the last of human freedoms—to choose one’s attitudes in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” Frankl was right. Attitude is a choice. You could be faced with a thousand problems, many or most over which you have absolutely no control. However, there is always one thing you are in complete and absolute control of and that is your own attitude.

When you surrender control of your attitude to what appears to be a negative situation, you will react to that situation. More often than not, reacting is inappropriate. On the other hand, if you were to remain objective, you would respond to the situation appropriately, thereby creating a winning situation.

If attitude is such an important word, why do so few people understand it? To be honest, it wasn’t until I was in my late 20s when I finally understood its full impact. All through my teens and into my early adult life, I can’t tell you the number of times that I heard, “Bob, if you’d just change your attitude, you would do a lot better.” In retrospect I can easily see the cause of my problem. I didn’t know what attitude was, let alone know how to change it!

Attitude is the composite of your thoughts, feelings and actions. Your conscious mind controls feeling and ultimately dictates whether your feelings will be positive or negative by your choice of thoughts, then your body displays those choices through action and behavior.

Attitude is actually a creative cycle that begins with your choice of thoughts. You do choose your thoughts and that choice is where your attitude originates. As you internalize ideas or become emotionally involved with your thoughts, you create the second stage in forming an attitude; you move your entire being—mind and body—into a new “vibration”. Your conscious awareness of this vibration is referred to as “feeling”. Your feelings are then expressed in actions or behaviors that produce the various results in your life.

Positive results are always the effect of a positive attitude. Attitude and results are inseparable. They follow one another like night follows day. What I mean by that is: one is the cause, the other, the result. There is a term we use to distinguish this “cause and effect” relationship, it is called The Law of Cause and Effect. Simply stated, if you think in negative terms, you will get negative results; if you think in positive terms you will achieve positive results. Ralph Waldo Emerson reiterated that same point when he said, “A person is what they think about all day long.” The results you achieve in life are nothing more than an expression of your thoughts, feelings, and actions. Take a close look at your life and evaluate the results you are achieving in various areas. See if you are able to relate your attitude to your results.

Winning and losing are opposite sides of the same coin—and that coin is attitude. There are many things wrong in this world; unfortunately that is all some people are able to see. Those who view the world in this light are often unhappy and somewhat cynical. Usually, their life is one of lack and limitation and it almost appears as if they move from one bad experience to another. I know people who are like this and I’m certain you do as well. It would appear as if they were born with a streak of bad luck and it has followed them around their whole life. These individuals are quick to blame circumstances or other people for their problems, rather than accepting responsibility for their life and their attitude.

Conversely, there are others who are forever winning and living the good life. They are the real movers and shakers who make things happen. They seem to go from one major accomplishment to another. They’re in control of their life; they know where they are going and know they will get there. They are the real winners in life and their wins are a matter of choice.

You can experience that kind of life as well, you only need to decide. Making that simple decision is the first step to a new life. Dorothea Brand once said, “Act as if it were impossible to fail,” and I challenge you to do so. By simply becoming aware that you can choose your thoughts each and every day, you will change your entire outlook. You have the power to choose an abundant life no matter your circumstances. That active choice will allow other positive people and opportunities to be attracted into your life. Don’t wait to experience all the wonderful things the universe has in store for you. Start today by working on your attitude and welcome the abundant life that you were meant to lead.

Bob Proctor is an Author, Speaker, and Life Coach. To get more information on how he can help you, go to http://www.bobproctorcoaching.com

Dig A Little Deeper

Posted December 12th, 2011. Filed under Self Development

There’s a story about the California gold rush that tells of two brothers who sold all they had and went prospecting for gold. They discovered a vein of the shining ore, staked a claim, and proceeded to get down to the serious business of getting the gold ore out of the mine. All went well at first, but then a strange thing happened. The vein of gold ore disappeared! They had come to the end of the rainbow, and the pot of gold was no longer there. The brothers continued to pick away, but without success. Finally, they gave up in disgust.

They sold their equipment and claim rights for a few hundred dollars, and took the train back home. Now the man who bought the claim hired an engineer to examine the rock strata of the mine. The engineer advised him to continue digging in the same spot where the former owners had left off. And three feet deeper, the new owner struck gold.

A little more persistence and the two brothers would have been millionaires themselves. That’s gold in you too. Do you need to dig 3 feet farther?

“Many of life’s failures are men who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.” – Thomas A. Edison

The One Thing You Need To Be Good At by Bob Bly

Posted December 7th, 2011. Filed under Self Development

The other day, my oldest son expressed to me his concern that he would not be successful as an adult.

Why not? Because (in his mind) there are quite a number of things he isn’t good at (math is at the top of the list).

I shared with him an encouraging success secret that I now pass on to you.

Namely, that to be extremely successful—in business, career, and wealth building—you don’t have to be good at a lot of things.

In fact, you can attain an extremely high level of success even if you are really good at only one thing.

Warren Buffett made this point some years ago in a college lecture he gave with Bill Gates.

He said, in essence, that he (Buffett) is not very strong, not very fast, not very physical, not very athletic.

“If I was dropped in the middle of Africa, I’d be eaten by a lion within 2 minutes,” he told the audience.

However, because he is good at only one thing—investing in the stock market—Buffett is an extremely wealthy man.

In my neighborhood, parents worry incessantly about whether their kids will be successful.

They fret over the kids’ grades…piano lessons…sports…extra-curricular activities…even how many friends the kids have…summer camp…you name it.

My kids have it easy, because I don’t worry about any of these things.

As long as they do their best, I don’t obsess over their grades or what extra-curricular activities they should be doing but are not.

I tell them what I just told you…

Find the one thing in life that you love—that turns you on, that you are passionate about—and keep doing it.

The more you do it, the better you get at it.

With an early start and years of practice, your kids will get good at the one thing they love, become extremely competent, and therefore never have to worry about supporting themselves or being out of a job.

Of course, to ensure financial success, this “one thing”—the singular passion—must be something others will pay money for.

To paraphrase Aristotle, “Where your passions intersect with the needs of the public, therein lies your vocation.”

Like Warren Buffett, I have very few talents and am not good at most things.

The list of what I am mediocre or bad at is very long indeed.

I’m incompetent at fixing things around the house, for example.

And I have a depth-perception problem that makes me lousy at tennis, baseball, or any sport where you have to hit a ball with a stick.

But I was always a voracious reader. I love books, reading, and writing. I began to write early—amateur comic books in elementary school, short stories in junior high school, articles for the papers in high school and college.

I spent so much time in college writing for our paper—it was a daily, and I became the features editor—that my writing began to improve significantly.

I realized writing was the one thing I love to do, have an aptitude for, and am good at.

And in copywriting, I found an area of writing where I could be paid handsomely for my efforts.

A mistake many people make is to continually work to improve themselves in areas where they are weak.

What you should do instead is to improve yourself in the one area where you are strongest.

Why?

Today we are a society of specialists.

When I was a kid, and the tiles in our bathroom began to crumble, my dad strapped on a tool belt and fixed them.

Today when my bathroom has a cracked tile, I call the tile guy—and pay him to fix it.

Success does not come from being a jack of all trades, and a master of none.

It comes from mastery of a skill or body of knowledge that others—an employer or customer—will pay you to share.

If I were to take a course in tiling, I would learn a little…but my abilities would be nothing compared to my tile guy, who has been doing this for 40 years.

I spend my time increasing my knowledge of marketing, which helps me make more money in my freelance copywriting and Internet marketing business.

Society admires the Renaissance man, the well-rounded individual.

But more often than not, it’s the singularly focused individual—Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, Tiger Woods—the person who is exceedingly good at just one thing—who reaps the greatest rewards.

Bob Bly is the author of “World’s Best Copywriting Secrets” and has written copy for more than 100 companies including IBM, Boardroom, Medical Economics and AT&T. He is the author of more than 75 books and a columnist for Target Marketing, Early To Rise and The Writer. McGraw-Hill calls him “America’s top copywriter”.

All I can say is WOW…

This is one of the coolest “projects” I’ve ever seen.

It’s pretty obvious that the big-shot bankers on Wall Street have been getting richer and richer during this economic crisis, while your friends and family members haven’t.

Well if you’re interested in cracking open the “black-box investing strategies” of the rich, so you can see how they’re doing it, you’ve gotta check out this video Mike Dillard just posted.

Despite the fact that he’s not an investor, trader, or financial guru of any kind, he’s made a 280% return since 2008, while the rest of the world has lost 30-40% of their portfolio.

How?

Get this: He found a “map” back in 2007 that’s allowed him to basically predict the future.

Like I said…VERY COOL.

Check out this video he just posted and you’ll see how he’s doing it.

Life according to Chetan Bhagat

Posted November 28th, 2011. Filed under Self Development

Don’t just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. I use the word balanced before successful. Balanced means ensuring your health, relationships, mental peace are all in good order. There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions.

“Life is one of those races in nursery school where you have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no point coming first. Same is with life where health and relationships are the marble. Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive, will start to die.

One thing about nurturing the spark – don’t take life seriously. Life is not meant to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a pre-paid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends. Do we really need to get so worked up?

It’s OK to bunk a few classes, score low in a couple of papers, goof up a few interviews, take leave from work. Enjoy with your friends, fall in love, fight little fights with your loved ones. We are people, not programmed devices.

Chetan Bhagat writes op-ed columns for English and Hindi newspapers, including Times of India and Dainik Bhaskar, focusing on youth and issues based on national development. Bhagat is also a motivational speaker and has given talks in leading MNCs and other institutions. He quit his international investment banking career in 2009, to devote his entire time to writing.

In 2008, The New York Times called Bhagat “the biggest selling English language novelist in India’s history”. Bhagat, a graduate of Indian Institute of Technology (IIT) Delhi and IIM Ahmedabad, is seen more as a youth icon than as an author. Time magazine named him as one of the 100 Most Influential People in the World. Bhagat also favoured the forming of a system similar to the Lokpal as early as January 2011 through his articles.

7 Steps To Mastering Your Wealth Accumulation

Posted November 27th, 2011. Filed under Self Development

Money Mastery

If you’re serious about your own financial freedom, then it’s imperative you listen closely (this is unlike anything out there today).

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If you’re struggling with money, can’t seem to get ahead financially or simply need to know what you can do RIGHT now to turn things around, then Money Mastery is something you will thank me for.

And here’s the best part: Because of my close relationship with them, they’ve allowed me to share a secret link where you can get the entire program for a whopping 62% off! If you’re serious about your financial freedom, this is your chance to prove it!

84 Personal Development Products

I’ve spent hours and hours trawling the Internet for some great personal development information.

Although there’s a huge amount of information out there, it’s quite hard to sort the wheat from the chaff…

Well, I’ve found a source which has quality written all over it.

It’s from a guy called Steven Aitchison. He has the biggest Personal Development blog in the UK and one of the biggest in the world with over 25,000 subscribers.

He’s just released 84 Personal Development Products.

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The great thing is the price. You need to see how much he’s giving these away for!

I’ve know Steven for a while now and know his work to be quality, and some of his tips and techniques really are life-changing. Developing your self and life is always a priceless affair no matter how high the investment. If Steven’s offer is still not value for money to you, I don’t know what else is!

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Once you are able to harness the cosmic forces of the universe, nothing else can stand in your way.

Yes. it is possible. The secrets are for real and available here.

Changing Your Habits by Renee Corbett

Posted November 1st, 2011. Filed under Self Development

We all have goals. Yet sometimes it seems no matter how many times we write them down, no matter how many times we visualize the goal, we still never seem to make any progress.

Why?

It could be as simple as changing your habits. The reason is simple but we all know that changing habits can be very difficult. Here are some tips to help change bad habits and create new ones.

Let’s talk about your brain.

In the last 20 years many studies have been done on the brain, and the results have been incredible.

Many studies talk about the conscious and the unconscious brain. According to the book, The Answer, “The conscious brain is the part of the brain that thinks and reasons, the part through which you exercise your free will” and the unconscious brain “is where the great bulk of perception happens: it is where your habits reside, where your accomplishments and achievements take root.”

What I glean from that is that habits happen unconsciously, you just do them because that is what you have been doing for a long time. Have you ever completed a task and then thought how did that get done? It just happens because your brain is used to doing that task or habit daily.

What does this mean for you and for you wanting to get rid of some old habits or create new ones? It means you have to beware of your brain. Your brain remembers the way you have done things for a very long time. To change the habit, you must be consciously aware of the old way of doing things, and the new way you want to do things.

Be Consciously Aware

Let’s take an example. If you decide you need to make sure you get 7 hours of sleep each night, you consciously need to make the effort to go to bed at 11:00 PM if you have to be up at 6:00 AM. If you do not think about this habit you want to achieve, your brain will let the old sleep patterns take over. It takes your brain anywhere from 27 to 31 days to adapt to a new habit.

At the very least for the next 4 weeks you will need to tell yourself to go to bed at 11 pm. After awhile this will become an unconscious and natural habit that your brain will adapt and just tell your body at 11 pm, “We are tired and need to go to bed.”

Changing habits is no easy task. It takes thought, effort and perseverance. For instance, when I worked for a computer retailer, I was expected to check my e-mail every hour, on the hour, for the latest communications from corporate. I worked there for 5 years, so when I left there it was the hardest habit to break. Checking my Yahoo! e-mail account once an hour was taking me away from what I needed to be focused on.

The very strange part is that I felt like something was missing if I did not check the e-mail; I felt like I was going to get in trouble for missing a very important email. I had to retrain my brain that it was no longer required and that it was a very bad habit. No one needs to look at e-mail once an hour, but it took a good 30 days for my brain to get it. So you see, consciously I got it, but it took my unconscious brain a lot longer to completely understand.

Write It Down

We may have the best intentions, we know we can achieve these goals; we write them down on paper or a “to do” list. We write it down and then continue to live this day like we did yesterday. To make this goal more real, you need to see it all day long. You need to physically be able to look at the goal throughout the day. Then you need to begin to take action on that goal everyday. This is where you need to retrain your brain.

When you are looking at the goal every day and taking steps toward the goal, your brain begins to see the pattern. The unconscious brain finally gets it, this is the direction you are now moving in.

Here’s the simple thing you should do right now. Write down the goal you want to achieve in the next year. Then begin taking action. You will be amazed at your brain and its power in helping you to achieve your goals and dreams.

In summary, changing your habits for more productivity is easier than you realize. All you need to do is:

  • Retrain your brain
  • Be aware of what you are doing
  • Write down your goals

Extracted from StomperNet SEO Intelligence Report, October 21, 2011.

Transform Today: Mega Summit Details

Posted October 26th, 2011. Filed under Self Development

What’s the one thing that brought together over 40 of the world’s top thought leaders in business, coaching and education?

Believe it or not, it’s just one word:

Yes!

Loral Langemeier, four-time bestselling author and world-renowned coach, has brought together top leaders from across a variety of different industries to share what helped them become who they are today.

During her “Yes! Energy Summit”, Loral and a team of over 40 thought leaders have committed to help change your conversation about finances, spirituality, love, life and possibility.

As with all of her books and events, Loral will share specific steps and actions that will help you find new energy and inspiration to create the life you’ve always wanted.

You will also receive a complete five day “Yes! Energy Bootcamp”, created and hosted by Loral to help you get daily support as you start your new conversation.

But first, you have to say “Yes!

7 Ways To Make Meetings More Productive

Posted October 12th, 2011. Filed under Self Development

1 – Start on time. Give warning; then do it.

2 – Assign time-keeping and minutes responsibilities.

3 – Keep posted on the time remaining and the amount behind schedule if any.

4 – Start with and stick to the agenda.

5 – Allow interruptions for emergency purposes only.

6 – Restate conclusions and assignments to ensure agreement.

7 – End on time.

Source: Alec MacKenzie, “The Time Trap” (Amacom)

I don’t know about you, but I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired. From what my friends are hearing at all of their events around the world, you’re done with that conversation too.

It’s time to change the conversation and work on a new equation for a way out of this mess.

The time for being busy just for the sake of being busy is over. Starting now, let’s commit to “saying Yes! and figuring out how” to really get it done.

The answer is in Loral’s new book “Yes! Energy: The Equation to Do Less, Make More“.

To celebrate the launch, you’ve been selected as part of a VIP group to get your copy along with thousands of dollars in bonuses and the chance to win even more in contests and giveaways.

Even better, Loral is not the only one committed to changing the conversation. She brought together 44 of her highest level friends, colleagues, and experts to share their motivation and inspiration with you. You’ll hear their personal stories, how they’ve overcome their challenges, and what makes them who they are every day.

They use the equation and you can too. But you only get access by pre-ordering the new book now.

Click here to get your copy and take your seat for this groundbreaking summit.

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The 25-50-25 Rule For Success by Bob Bly

Posted August 18th, 2011. Filed under Self Development

“I was quite eager to learn about marketing and began reading everything associated with it,” one of my subscribers, KM, told me in a recent e-mail.

“However, with all that’s published on marketing online today, I find myself reading more than applying.

“How do I separate the worthy reading, that which would benefit my business, from the interesting but time-consuming reading that is of little practical value?

“Sometimes I force myself to read almost everything, fearful I may overlook some exceptional information or nugget. Help! Where do I stop?”

I hear this story all the time…

You are interested in something—whether it is copywriting, Internet marketing, whatever.

But you are overwhelmed by all the information being offered on the subject (after all, we live in the Information Age).

So you go “information crazy”…buying every course, attending every conference, reading every e-book, listening to every audio CD, and dialing into every webinar you can find.

Before you know it, a month…6 months…or a year has gone by—and you are no closer to your business or career goal.

That’s because you’ve spent all your time reading, studying, and learning the thing you are interested in—rather than actually DOING it.

Sadly, you are suffering from a syndrome I call “analysis paralysis”.

All the information you are taking in has overloaded your circuits.

You can’t process it all, sort through it, and figure out what to do first.

So instead, you do nothing. You take no action—other than to order yet another course or report to read.

You have become a marketing information junkie—avoiding the harsh realities of the business world by retreating to your favorite comfy chair with yet another neat marketing book.

You spend all your time READING about starting a business. So there is no time left to actually start or run a business.

You are an “armchair entrepreneur”—more enamored with the idea of entrepreneurship than the actuality.

Fortunately there is an easy solution: the 25-50-25 rule. It provides a simple guideline to help you get unstuck.

It says there are only three ways to learn a process (e.g. starting an Internet business) or a skill (e.g., copywriting): studying, observing, and doing.

Are you spending too much time studying and reading about Internet marketing or freelancing—and not enough time actually doing it and getting your business off the ground? Then apply the 25-50-25 rule.

The 25-50-25 rule says that to master a skill or process, and put what you learn into practical action, you must divide your time as follows:

>> No more than 25% of your time is spent studying i.e. reading books, going to boot camps, attending workshops, listening to CDs in your car.

>> No more than 25% of your time is spent observing—watching what successful people in your field are already doing; e.g., if you want to become a direct mail copywriter, this means reading and analyzing the direct mail you get in your mail box each day.

>> At least 50% of your time is spent actually DOING the thing you are studying and observing e.g. if you want to sell information products on the Internet, you are creating your first product…designing your website…or building your list.

The idea is similar to Michael Masterson’s notion of “ready, fire, aim”. He says that you should take action right away, and then learn as you go.

Acquiring business knowledge is a worthwhile activity. But without action, that knowledge is worthless to you.

KM’s worry that, by not reading everything, he may miss a ‘nugget’ of information is accurate: you will never know everything there is to know in your field, or even most of what there is to know in your field.

But so what?

You don’t have to know everything—or even most of what there is to know—to succeed in most endeavors.

For example, there are hundreds of strategies for making money on the Internet.

But you can make a six-figure annual income online using only a handful of them, even if you never bother to learn the others.

In freelance copywriting, there are many top writers who only write one type of promotion. Or work in one narrow niche. And they make a fortune doing so.

When we were kids, our parents and teachers told us to study, study, study.

But I see many people today much more enamored with studying marketing and reading about business, marketing, writing, and entrepreneurship than actually doing.

Well, I understand that. Reading about marketing is fascinating and fun.

But the money is in the doing, not the reading.

Follow the 25-50-25 rule, and you’ll be doing—and making money—at least half the time.


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